am writing on this, because this could be the problem of so many other people. If Sushant Singh Rajput can face this even after being celebrity and successful what is the fate of common people who are not even successful in their personal and professional domain or service carrier. People who are shy, people who are introvert, people who are not comfortable with dancing, playing or expressing, people who are not financially strong, people who are left out in parties faces similar problem day in day out. But do they have to choose to end their life like this?
I am greatly in pained when a bright soul meet such tragic end. All deaths are painful whatever manner it comes. But I am particularly pained when young souls lose respect for their life and decide end their life is such manner. Its death of a hope and dream. They just don’t end themselves, they kill the hope, aspiration and dream of thousand others, people who draw inspiration from their life. All of a sudden they feel the void, that their role model is no more, were they wrong in following him, their confidence start shaking. Which is disastrous and much bigger loss. Its a loss not only to the family but also to the society.
Look at his smile, possibly one of the most warm smile in the Hindi film industry, the smile which was the cause of motivation for millions of his fan to face the challenge of life.
But the angle we are taking here for blaming certain other individual, holding them responsible for this tragedy in some manner, I feel is taking us in a wrong direction. At least it would not help to us to stop such incident in future as well. We may choose to criticize few individual (right or wrong), but it doesn’t have any guarantee that their conscience will change. Nepotism, favoritism, corruption is everywhere and Bollywood is no exception. It starts as early as in our school life, someone become become favorite student sometimes because of merit and sometime for other reasons.
So what do we do ? Look inward ! We have to take responsibility for everything that happens in our life Good or Bad. If we take the credit of good thing happening in our life then we have take 100% responsibility of our failure as well. Yes other people may have their contribution in our failure, but blaming them is not going to solve our problem. We can not change others, but we can surely adapt ourselves.
Sushant Singh didn’t come to Bollywood ,hoping that someone will help him, or his path to stardom would be bed of roses, it never happens to anybody. Otherwise all the brothers of Salman Khan would have been equally successful like him if only nepotism could help them. Sushant became successful because he fought it out, he became successful because of the sincere struggle he made. You can neither be successful or doomed just because few people want you to be successful or wants you to be failure.
He was so young, so vibrant, it was too early to accept defeat, it was fatal error of judgement in life. Unfortunately most of us don’t know how to make peace with life, accept our failure or defeat gracefully. Neither success not failure - nothing permanent. Tendulkar got out on zero so many times, he didn’t quit cricket. He couldn’t have blamed the bowler for bowling an absolutely beauty. Playing easy ball could not have made Tendulkar great batsman.
The world will behave whatever way it wants to. There will be nasty bouncer on your way. There will be close fielders around you to catch you out. Its not necessary that you have to play every ball. You could duck, you could defend it or play for six. You have to decide your course of cation. There would balls that would beat you repeatedly or eventually make you out even on zero. If that can happen with finest batsman in the world, it can happen to anyone. But the game doesn’t get over. You have keep on playing and wait the day when you could pulp out the best bowler in the world. We need to change our approach towards life.
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