Very tricky question.
I will narrate a story before I answer this question. What happens when an Indian wife find the neighbour’s husband more handsome or attractive ( by all means ) or the husband find neighbour’s wife more attractive. It only gives pain, you can not express it openly, because your better half ( husband or wife ) is not going to like it. Secondly the more you compare, the more you will be unhappy. Rather it could spell disaster in your married life if your better half get any hint of your secret liking. Your neighbour may at the most be happy discretely. And in most cases may despise you, or doubt your character. And in rare case it could lead to an illicit or extra marital affairs. In India we mostly marry only once. Its another matter that many of us may be having a secret crash. But it better be and die as a secret only. So it is advisable to avoid looking at your neighbours, it could be a costly affair and make your life miserable one way or the other. You have live your life with your spouse only whether you find him or her good looking / sexy / attractive or not. Don’t try to bring spice in life. On the safer side you can see some movie and fantasize about the hero or the heroin which you spouse will not be jealous of or doubt as they are beyond your reach.
So your question is also like this. If people of Pakistan discretely like Naredra Modi, it’s of no use to them. It will surely make their life miserable, if by any chance people come to know that some one admire Modi. Looking in to our relation of animosity, I don’t think its possible. Yes they could be jealous of Modi, like we secretly feel jealous of our neighbours having beautiful or handsome spouse. But that is only jealousy not love. No I don’t think there is any chance for people of Pakistan falling in love with Modi, baring possibly the Hindu community living there ( the prosecuted minority ) But they are also expected to love their country and their PM not India or Modi. Like the Indian wives would be expected to love their husband even if they turn out to be wife tormentor. At least loving neighbours husband does’t help to solve their problem. Rather Indian wives keep on trying to bring their husbands on the right path.
Its different matter we ( particularly the wives ) keep on giving example of neighbours spouse mostly during quarrel. But that doesn’t mean she loves the neighbour’s husband. However husbands should be careful not to give neghbours’ spouse’s example even by mistake.
It doesn’t mean Modi is not worth giving example. Possibly for a distant country, he is worth giving example and loving. Like if you ask an Indian heroin - who is your favorite hero - they would always take example Hollywood hero whom they admire.
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